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When a mother is older, the father is often older, too. Some studies have shown that men 55 or older are more likely to father babies with Down syndrome. These studies also indicate the risk increases with an older mother. We estimate that at the age of 40, a man's risk of fathering a child with Down syndrome is about 1 %; that rate doubles at age 45 but is still only 2%.
Some researchers now recommend that men father children before they are 40. This is a conservative viewpoint, and not everyone agrees with it. More data and research are needed before we can make definite statements about a father's age and its effect on pregnancy.
You can expect pregnancy to be an exciting time for you and your partner. You may feel the physical and emotional effects of being pregnant a little more than a woman in her 20s, but you can take many positive steps to help ensure your pregnancy will go as smoothly as possible for you and your baby.
If either you or your partner is older than 35, genetic counseling may be advisable. The risk of chromosome abnormalities exceeds 5% in this situation. Genetic counseling brings together a couple and healthcare professionals who are trained to deal with the questions and problems associated.
First-Time or Repeat Pregnancy?
Being pregnant can be wonderful and nerve reckoning at the same time. It's a time of learning and of spiritual, intellectual and physical growth. It's also a time to be open about your concerns.
When a woman discovers she is pregnant, she may feel many emotions excitement, anxiety, joy. You may be surprised by your emotions when you learn you're pregnant. Even if you and your partner have been anticipating a pregnancy, you may not feel the way you thought you would.
If you aren't immediately thrilled about pregnancy, don't feel alone. It's common to feel conflict about the news and to question your condition. Some of this may be attributed to the anxiety you feel if you're not sure what lies ahead.
YOUR FIRST PREGNANCY AFTER 35
During pregnancy, you may experience fatigue and emotional mood swings. You must adjust to your changing body. People will give you advice and share stories about their own pregnancies, labors and deliveries. You will receive a lot of attention, sometimes unwanted.
You can't avoid some of these experiences. However, knowing the facts about pregnancy can prepare you to accept or to ignore advice. Knowing how the female body reacts to pregnancy can help you understand the changes you experience and help you make intelligent choices as the need arises. If you're willing to adapt and adjust your lifestyle for the sake of your health and that of your growing baby, you can do a lot to make your pregnancy a happy, fulfilling experience.
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