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Sex During Pregnancy Most couples are concerned about sexual activity during pregnancy; however, men are more often concerned with this aspect of a relationship. It's an important topic, so discuss it with your doctor. You will need to ask for individual advice and to rule out any complications. Most doctors agree sex can be a part of a normal, low-risk pregnancy.
Sex doesn't just mean sexual intercourse. There are many ways for couples to be sensual together, including giving each other a massage, bathing together and talking about sex. Whatever you do, be honest with your partner about how you're feeling and keep a sense of humor.
Can Sex during Pregnancy Hurt the Baby?
Sexual activity doesn't harm a growing baby. Neither intercourse nor orgasm should be a problem if you have a low-risk pregnancy.
The baby is well protected by the amniotic sac and amniotic fluid. Uterine muscles are strong, and they also protect the baby. A thick mucus plug seals the cervix, which helps protect against infection. Discuss sexual activity with your doctor, especially if your partner goes with you to your appointments. If he doesn't, assure him there should be no problems if your doctor gives you the go-ahead.
Frequent sexual activity should not be harmful to a healthy pregnancy. Usually a couple can continue the level of sexual activity they are used to. If you are concerned, discuss it at an office visit.
How Pregnancy Affects You Sexually
Generally, women experience one of two sex-drive patterns during pregnancy. One is a lessening of desire in the 1 st and 3rd trimesters, with an increase in the 2nd trimester. The second is a gradual decrease in desire as pregnancy progresses.
During the 1 st trimester, you may experience fatigue and nausea.
During the 3rd trimester, your weight gain, enlarging abdomen, tender breasts and other problems may make you less desirous of sex. This is normal. Tell your partner how you feel, and try to work out a solution that is satisfactory to both of you.
Pregnancy actually enhances the sex drive for some women. In some cases, a woman may experience orgasms or multiple orgasms for the first time during pregnancy. This is due to heightened hormonal activity and increased blood flow to the pelvic area.
Some women feel less attractive during pregnancy because of their size and the changes in their bodies. Discuss your feelings with your partner. Tenderness and understanding can help you both.
You may find new positions for lovemaking are necessary as pregnancy progresses. Your abdomen may make some positions more uncomfortable than others. In addition, physicians advise you not to lie flat on your back after 16 weeks until the baby's birth because the weight of the uterus restricts circulation. You might try lying on your side or use a position that puts you on top.
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