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When to Avoid Sexual Activity |
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Pregnancy
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When to Avoid Sexual Activity Some situations should alert you to abstain from sex during pregnancy. If you have a history of early labor, your doctor may warn against intercourse and orgasm; orgasm causes mild uterine contractions. Chemicals in semen may also stimulate contractions, so it may not be advisable for a woman's partner to ejaculate inside her.
If you have a history of miscarriage, your doctor may caution you against sex and orgasm. However, no data actually links the two.
Avoid sexual activity if you have any of the following problems or conditions:
• placenta previa or a low-lying placenta
• incompetent cervix
• premature labor
• multiple fetuses
• ruptured bag of waters
• pain with intercourse
• unexplained vaginal bleeding or discharge
• you can't find a comfortable position
• either partner has an unhealed herpes lesion
• you believe labor has begun
Sexual Practices to Avoid
Avoid some sexual practices when you're pregnant. Don't insert any object into the vagina that could cause injury or infection. Blowing air into the vagina is dangerous because it can force a potentially fatal air bubble into a woman's bloodstream. (This can occur whether or not you are pregnant.) Nipple stimulation releases oxytocin, which causes uterine contractions; you might want to discuss this practice with your doctor.
Your Bed Rest Can Affect Your Partner
In some situations, a woman may be ordered to bed for part of her pregnancy. She may also have to abstain from sex. Bed rest can be unpleasant for the woman; however, it may be just as difficult for her partner.
Partners of women with pregnancy complications carry a heavy load. In addition to worrying about their partners and the growing babies, they may also have to handle housework, cooking, childcare and care of their partners. It can be difficult for a man to handle his work and the added responsibility at home. Resentment is common.
If you are ordered to bed, make sure you consider your partner's feelings about it. Let him know how valuable he is to you. Be supportive (this can be tough when you're the one in bedl}, and try not to be overly demanding. Arrange for others to help out when possible.
For all the inconveniences and disruptions in your life that bed confinement causes, the experience may strengthen your relationship. When he gives his time and attention to this demanding task, your partner is really offering you his support and love. Let him know how much you appreciate it.
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